tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6552579109190549358.post3252524710833695107..comments2023-05-07T11:07:39.719-07:00Comments on Smart Love: Mono-polyMichael Whitehousehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11965091654398554021noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6552579109190549358.post-90054926394457224892012-08-23T22:44:58.793-07:002012-08-23T22:44:58.793-07:00I am in a very similar situation! I also use food ...I am in a very similar situation! I also use food metaphors to explain my desires to my partner, lol... I wish you the best of luck :)Lindseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12173372196261239050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6552579109190549358.post-52433447530857511272012-01-14T11:30:31.160-08:002012-01-14T11:30:31.160-08:00This was interesting to read because it reflects s...This was interesting to read because it reflects some of what is going on in my relationship currently. I am poly, he is not. I have the "ok" to date other females only, but generally I don't because I'm not 100% sure he is actually comfortable with it. I think he feels threatened by it, that I'm going to leave, even though I know that I'm not. I wish I had a better way to make him understand that he fulfills my needs just fine, I just have seperate needs that don't involve him. You can like pizza and still want buffalo wings, and it doesn't make you love pizza any less.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com